HOW TO PET A CAT

Sweet, fluffy cats can be so much fun to pet. But cats are just like any animal, and approaching a kitty the wrong way might get a claw to your hand rather than a warm bump of her head. To make things even more confusing, a cat might sometimes seem to enjoy your pets, only to suddenly swat at you the next second. With so many ups and downs, it's natural to be cautious. Learning how to pet a cat isn't that difficult, but you need to take time to understand your cat's unique language.

Where Do Cats Like to be Pet?

Cats are very different from dogs when it comes to where they like to be petted. While dogs aren't very picky, cats can be a lot more sensitive.

Most cats love to be touched on the head near their scent gland areas, around the ears, cheeks, and just under the chin. Other cats may enjoy a soft pet on their back, moving your hand from head to tail. But this can really vary from cat to cat. Some studies have shown cats don't like their tail area being petted, while other cats love it.1

In contrast, most cats are uncomfortable being petted around their legs. Avoid the sides of their body and their throat region. Don't pet against the direction of their fur, from tail to head. Usually, a soft pet to the head is the best way to start. Remember, this is a gentle touch where you slide your hand along the back of the fur, not a firm pat like you might give a dog.

Cats don't like their paws touched unless they've been socialized to accept that as a kitten. This is why pet owners have such a tough time clipping their cats' nails.

Do Cats Like Belly Rubs?

Most cats are skittish about having their bellies rubbed or even just lightly petted. They feel vulnerable on their backs, so they might instinctively react by scratching your hand. Their belly skin is also extra sensitive.2 Of course, there's always the exception, and an occasional cat might enjoy a belly rub from someone they really trust.