So You Think You Bought the Wrong Horse?
Talk to People
The horse community, even in small states, is tightly knit and active, and with the internet and social media, it is easy to reach a lot of people. Even people outside of your area are easy to reach out to. Use that to your advantage and spread the word online about your horse being for sale or lease. Be honest about the situation; remember, honesty keeps people from getting hurt.
Make sure to spread the word to everyone at your barn or other horsey friends - horse people talk to each other! Someone out there might be looking for a horse just like yours!
Giving Your Horse Away
I know this makes a lot of people cringe. Not just because of the money lost but just the thought of maybe not knowing where your horse ends up. Some people think that it is setting your horse up to land in a bad situation. I don't necessarily agree; as long as you are honest and feel comfortable with the person, it could be the right situation. You just have to follow your gut about whether it seems like a good match or not. If you can't horse shop for your unicorn until you sell the first horse because it is too expensive to board two, it is at least something to think about.
I have gotten some of my best horses for free, older horses to do lessons and younger horses like the racetrack rejects that ended up in the hands of an inexperienced rider. Each horse and situation is different and should be treated as such.
Donating to a College Equestrian Program
I have seen many ads in publications in search of rideable horses to be donated to their equine studies program. The type of horses they look for varies, but some equine studies programs have young aspiring, and skilled riders who can handle a little more horse.
Donating your horse also opens up the possibility of a tax write-off at the end of the year, depending on your expenses and what the horse was valued at.
What If the Problem Is Not Behavioral but Soundness?
If your horse is not appropriate for you due to soundness, I'm assuming you had him evaluated by a vet. So, in that case, you know what the horse's capabilities should be as far as riding goes. For example, he may not be able to jump but could be a good trail horse . . . that sort of thing. So, in this case, you are looking for an easier job for your horse.